The host was very accommodating almost not as much as one would consider by traveling after recalling next door. Prior to our arrival, there was conversation to our ETS which was assuring. However, surprising to us Jan was sitting on the porch. It seemed Jan wanted to provide a tour, but instead it was rather a corrective measure to have never met us but to gesture as if we were uncontrollable guest. It, very unsettling. Having to ask by who were destructive. As she wanted to point out things that was not needed. I explained to how well we were potty trained, jokingly. Meaning, truly never experienced such a corrective enforcement guided tour, don't touch this, or do that which was finally beyond unpleasant. While a friend and i were there to visit friends, and me family. There is a rule sheet, guest can come 8:30-11pm. Never had opportunity to have family over. The backyard to a firepit and great landscape has poor lighting, none at all. Perhaps a set of light strands, or solar lights to the yard to retreat. Instead, it is set up in the yard next door. Which is very misleading and poor representation. Also, it says guest is allowed set times. Well after the tour while Jan made her welcoming presentation to a full experience to say it is to relax, and feel secluded. When knowingly Jan leaves out, she is right smack next door as in it should well have been attached it is not a separate household. While having us as paid customers, it was not relaxing rather uncomfortable