PRIVATE HOME, Pool, Walk to Beach, Designer Remodel - Cloud 9 Beach House

My family of 4 rented this home for 6 weeks this summer (booked over a year prior). We have 3 and 4 year old daughters. Average temperatures in Kihei this time of year have been 90+ degrees and very humid, with lows in the mid-70s at night. When we moved in the air conditioning was turned on to 75 degrees and locked (renters have no control). While it was a little warm to sleep at night, we are not complainers and were willing to run the fans and sleep with just a sheet. One afternoon two weeks into our stay, we had an ant problem in the kitchen. I quickly sprayed the cabinets to kill the ants, and cleaned the entire inside of the cabinets, washed all the glassware/dishehs. The owner said she would come by in the afternoon while we were at the beach to caulk an area where she thought the ants were entering. When we returned from the beach (gone a total of 2 1/2 hours), we found that the air conditioning had been turned off and it was 86 degrees inside the house. Immediately we reached out to the home owner about why the air was turned off. She said that their house policy is to turn off the AC EVERY TIME you leave the house. Her house, her rules. If we don't like it then we need to leave and she said she was coming over to kick us out and give us our cash refund for the remainder of our stay. She harassed us and threatened my husband. I took a photo of the baby monitor that night that showed my daughters room at 82 degrees at 10:30pm that night - obviously because the AC didn't have enough time to cool back down. We went to bed that night thinking she would realize how crazy this was in the morning and apologize. Instead, she said she would let us stay ONLY if we gave her a positive review. Otherwise, my family would be forced out to the street. The property listing nor rental agreement states anything about restricting air conditioning in the dead of summer - which is what we were upset about - especially for the price tag we were paying. After much anxiety and fear, we spoke with VRBO who told us not to speak with the homeowner anymore and that they would replace us at another property. Not only was this situation seemingly ridiculous, but incredibly inconvenient to repack my entire family and move all groceries/supplies. If there would have simply been a daily charge to keep the AC running at all times, we would have paid it! Then didn't even give us our entire refund for the remainder of our stay once we left the house in pristine condition!